How To Make Room For "Real Life" AND Your Dreams

What if you didn't have to choose between the career you've built and the dreams you still secretly want?

Hi, I'm Bree.

I'm a UC Berkeley professor and award-winning author who's also a potter, a climber, and a lifelong art nerd who refuses to pick just one.

I want to share something with you today, because my guess is you'll see yourself in it.

When Every Big Decision Feels Like a Tiny Betrayal

Many accomplished women walk around with a feeling they can't quite describe.

On paper, everything looks great. They may even be proud of the careers they've built. But deep down, it still feels like something’s missing. 

Every big decision feels like a tiny betrayal.

Do I stay "responsible" or follow what lights me up? 

Choose career or creativity? 

Protect what I've built or listen to the part of me that wants more?

If this lands for you, you probably know the feeling. The one where every choice seems to require abandoning some essential part of yourself.

Maybe it's saying yes to work that looks impressive but feels hollow. Downplaying the passions that don't fit the life you've built.  

Or maybe you’re finding yourself wondering, "Is this all there is?"

The Either/Or Boxes Are Made Up

The more we live inside these either/or boxes, the more we start to believe they're real. We tell ourselves, "This is what being a responsible adult looks like." Soon, wanting more feels ungrateful, and believing you can have both feels unrealistic.

But here's what I want you to know:

These boxes are made up.

Life isn't meant to be your career OR your dreams. 

Responsibility OR freedom. 

Job OR passion.

Your life gets to be an AND.

That's How the AND Bundle Was Born

When I discovered this in my own life, I couldn't unsee it! I started looking for ways to help women step out of those either/or cages and into lives that feel more authentic, fulfilling and, well…fun.

That's how The AND Bundle was born.

It's the shift women need when they're tired of trimming themselves down to fit someone else's version of a good life.

The best part is, you don’t need to burn your life down or quit your job overnight. This is about an extraordinary life that has room for ALL of you.

What Becomes Possible When You Replace OR With AND

If you want to:

  • Spot the hidden either/or stories running your career, your calendar, even your relationships

  • Unhook from guilt and stories like "I should be grateful" that keep you saying yes to things you’d rather say no to

  • Bring your real passions back into your actual week with small, doable shifts you can make even on a packed schedule

  • Make choices from your full self, instead of only from the scared, sensible part that keeps you playing small

  • Start living a both/and life that feels bigger and more alive, without torching the stability you've worked so hard to build

  • Say yes and no in ways that protect what’s still important to you while leaving room for what you want 

  • Redefine success in a way that fits who you are now (not who you were 15 years ago) so you stop chasing goals that no longer inspire you


Then The AND Bundle gives you a practical way to get there.

What Women Are Saying

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This Is For You, If You…

➡️ Have a career others admire, yet secretly feel like you left a vital part of yourself behind

➡️ Are tired of postponing what you really want for "later" or when “things calm down”

➡️ Want more meaning and aliveness without blowing up your stability

➡️ Have checked most of the boxes you were told to check, and something still feels missing

➡️ Feel pulled toward that word AND, even if you can’t fully explain it yet

Here's What's Included When You Order Today

  • The AND Book The best-selling book that started it all! Don't stay trapped in painful compromises or conventional choices! Discover how AND can ignite your passion and fuel an extraordinary life Retail: $24.95 
  • The AND Companion Journal Great writers write every day. Great lovers love every day. Great AND-ers AND every day. Use this guided journal to transform OR into AND with daily prompts and exercises! Retail: $29.95
  • AND Bookmarks, Stickers, and a Notepad Keep AND in front of you day to day, including a notepad for jotting things down as they come up Retail: $19.95
  • The AND 5-Day Challenge Five short videos you can watch on your own schedule that help you move from constraint to creativity. Through practical exercises and guided reflections, uncover a simple method you can return to whenever you feel stuck, afraid, or ready for more possibility in your life. Retail: $97
  • Free Shipping Get the complete AND Bundle delivered right to your door at no extra cost Retail: $9.95

Retail: 181.80

Today Only: $97

Yes! — Send Me The AND Bundle

NOTE: The book, journal, and extras arrive together in one box at your door. Your AND Challenge videos are ready to watch the moment you order.

This Is A Limited Time Offer

The AND Bundle would normally be $181.80 for everything in the box plus the AND Challenge.

But you don't need to pay that today.

Order now and you get all of it, the book, the journal, the bookmarks, stickers, and notepad, plus the AND Challenge, so you can stop choosing between the career you've built and the life you actually want.

For just $181.80 $97 (You save 47%).

Plus you have no risk thanks to my…

Both/And Guarantee

  • Open the box, watch the AND Challenge videos, and use the journal for a FULL 30 DAYS. If within that time it hasn't radically changed how you see your choices, email my office at bree @breerosenblum.com and I'll make it right with a full and prompt refund. 

    No questions asked and no hard feelings.

    You can even keep the book.

    So you have nothing to lose and a whole lot of new, thrilling choices to gain!

Yes! — I Want To Live A Both/And Life

OR Is a Cage. AND Is a Doorway.

Replace OR with AND in the places it shows up most in your inner monologue, and watch what happens.

You can be a serious professional AND a creative. 

Love your family AND want more for yourself. 

Keep what you've built AND expand what's possible.

OR is a cage. AND is a doorway.

Enter Your Information Below To Get the AND Bundle And Start Today

Bree Rosenblum

...is a UC Berkeley distinguished professor & an award-winning author. Her work has been featured in the New York Times & National Geographic and on the Discovery Channel, NPR, BBC & the TEDx stage. Bree's new book AND: The tiny word the can radically transform your life was named NM's non-fiction book of the year.